Cross posted to Mom to the Screaming Masses
When I saw this book, I ordered it straight away. The author's son has the same disorder has Riley, so I was really interested to hear her viewpoints. From Amazon:
Three years ago, magazine editor Denise Brodey’s precocious four-year-old son, Toby, was diagnosed with a combination of sensory integration dysfunction and childhood depression. As she struggled to make sense of her new, often chaotic, often lonely world, what she found comforted her most was talking with other harried, hopeful, and insightful parents of kids with special needs, learning how they coped with the feelings they encountered throughout the day.
In The Elephant in the Playroom, moms and dads from across the country write intimately and honestly about the joyful highs and disordered lows of raising children who are “not quite normal.” Laying bare the emotional, medical, and social challenges they face, their stories address issues ranging from if and when to medicate a child, to how to get a child who is overly sensitive to the texture of food to eat lunch. Eloquent and honest, the voices in this collection will provide solace and support for the millions of parents whose kids struggle with ADD, ADHD, sensory disorders, childhood depression, Asperger’s syndrome, and autism—as well as the many kids who fall between diagnoses.
Offering readers comfort, community, and much-needed perspective, The Elephant in the Playroom is sure to become essential reading for parents of special needs kids.
What's not to like about a book that talks like this? Nothing. I really liked this book, although it was not easy reading. In fact, I could only read a bit here and there, because some of the stories are heartbreakingly raw. There are very few books that deal with being the parent of a kid with special needs, and this one fills the space most comfortably. The essays are written by mother and fathers, people who live with the tantrums, crankiness, mood swings and other struggles and do it every day. There are essays both pro and con for medication, schooling, therapy, and so on.
If you are dealing with a special needs child, or just want to have empathy for those who do, please read this book. Found at Amazon for $17.12. I'm loaning this one to the counselors at my kids school.